Truth of life

I really appreciate the people who were not vegetarian by birth but they actually left non-veg.by their will-power because non-vegetarianism for vegetarian people(by Birth) is not a big deal ,the fact is that they do not know the taste of non-veg.,they never relish non-veg but on the other side the people,who really enjoyed the non-veg in their life and they left it ,this is big deal,this is sacrifice.
The same logic I apply for the sages.Living alone or leaving relations or not involving in 'Moh'-affections is not big deal for the sages or devotees who actually left their family for the search of God.This is really big deal if you are living in family and fulfilling the duties of father,mother,sister,brother, husband or wife but still you are reminding yourself that all this world is mortal, nothing is permanent and we should not do that much 'moh' with anything,either it is materialistic or non-materialistic.These thoughts are the big deal,toughest thing to apply in life.But this is selfless approach.Half of the problems in this world will vanish the moment when we will learn to be less possessive and selfless.
One story written by Vivekananda always shiver me --When Narada asked Krishna--What is 'moh'?Krishna told him to get the water for him and Narada went to search of water.He knocked the door of a Brahmin and the beautiful girl of that bramin opened the door.Narada forgot the need of water and he fell in love of that girl.He stayed in the brahmin's home and after some days he married the daughter of that brahmin.After some years he had the family, one wife and two kids.They lived happily but one day in a flood everything washed out.Narada has lost his whole family and he started crying.He was weeping loudly,at that time somebody held his shoulder and that was Krishna. Krishna asked,"Where is water?",Narada was astonished and shocked ,then Krishna smiled,said,"This is moh".Narada learnt the meaning of Moh.
We are like that.We have all these things-money,status,family etc.and we think this is final and we owe all these.No we are wrong,nothing is ours.The mother thinks-her son is only hers,she owes him,no.The husband thinks-wife is his-he owes her-No.
We owe nothing.We are alone just as we came in this world.Yes there are duties,our dharma,which we have to fulfill, this is our task after that we have to go for next journey............for unknown paths................unknown world..................unknown relations...........

Celestial bonding..........Friendship

Do you believe in celestial bonding?The relations of our soul.Sometimes we feel very strongly for some of our friends with whom we do not have any blood relation or social relation but we really care for them,we think for them,we miss them,we love them and we cry for them.We feel very comfortable in their company,we like to discuss every thing with them,either it is joke or serious political discussion.I believe that we are connected with these souls through ages,through janmas.Yes,I believe in reincarnation because this is the only answer which I get for my these emotional bonding.First I got this answer within my heart then in the books of Dr.Brian Weiss.
We often indulge ourselves in the feelings of jealousy,possessiveness etc.Why?If we try to believe in reincarnation ,the faith of remaining together through janmas will grow in our hearts and we will get contentment in any circumstance.Why will we be possessive about the thing which is with us for ever? Why will we be jealous about any relation,any soul, which we strongly feel,is with us through janmas?
If we believe in our bonding,we do not try to hold that in our fist,we should have to open our palm and let it fly,if it is mine it will sure come back and will remain in our palm only.
With some of my friends I do not talk regular,but whenever we talk ,we talk for hours without break.This is the comfort,which I personally feel with my friends,beyond any limitations,beyond any customs and regulations I really like this celestial relation-friendship,where you are "you",without any cover your soul stands naked before your true friend and you do not have any fear. The connection between souls.................Through janmas..........................

Are we Hindu?

Hinduism- you know actually what is Hinduism--this is "tolerance,patience,forgiveness,sacrifice,acceptance and love".These are the attributes by which we define Rama and Krishna-our deities.I have read about one of the Ramlilas of Lucknow,in which a Muslim was playing character of Rama and he took a break in Ramlila for Namaz and after that Ramlila continued.This is Hindu,who accepts all religions,customs and respects the feelings of others.After reading this type of news we really full of pride of being Hindu.
But day after day when we read that 50000s are out of home and many of the people murdered,burnt and gang raped in Orissa because of just one reason that they are Christians,me,a Hindu feel ashamed of belonging that community who can forget the actual roots of their religion.How can we be such fanatics ?No,this is not we,Hindu,this is not our identity.
Why are we trying to lose our identity?
Are we real Hindu?

Will Power

Yes I strongly believe in will-power.In a recent movie-a saying was there -"Tum agar kisi cheez ko dil se chahoge to sari kaynat usko tumhe haasil karne mein tumhari madad karti hai".And if you can believe,this is truth.You ask for a wish but it should be by heart and honestly you want this, You will get it.May be today or tomorrow or day after tomorrow.Patiently you have to wait for the right time,for the right circumstances,may be you have to wait year after year but believe me one day you will get it.This is will power.
Only assure one thing that never leave hope.Ummiden apne aap se kabhi mat todo.Because you have one and only one precious life and you have every caliber to live this life and decorate it with your dreams.

Strength

A poor lady--at the end of her whole busy day,after accomplishing all the duties for her children,in-laws and household activities she receives harsh words,roadside filthy language and lots of beating from her drunken husband and finally one day she leaves all these things--starts her journey for an unknown place because she now can not compromise with her self respect,she realizes that after all she is a human-being.She has still lots of dreams for her children and she now earns for them ,she is living now at her own terms and conditions.
Yes,I salute my maid-servant for her strength.
May God fulfill her all dreams.

daughter's day

Today is daughters day.On this day I want to share with all daughters of the world that do your best to fulfill the expectations of your parents.Show your capabilities and energies to meet your and your parent's dreams.Be an individual and never loose your individuality.Be different.Do different.Earn recognition,Earn appreciation because this is the wealth which will remain forever even after the death.

The one who tolerates can survive

'Je Shauye she rauye'Bangla Proverb,I have heard it at the age of 20.Then I could understand the verbal meaning of this proverb but there is always an inner meaning of any phrase which actually strike your heart,your thought process.When you apply any proverb or phrase on life of others or yourself then only you can understand the actual meaning.Me,now at the age of 39, can understand every aspect of this proverb.'The one who tolerates can survive ',at the time of marriage with all gifts every elder used to gift this proverb to brides.And with the passing years they used to whisper at ears that it is the truth of successful married life that you have to tolerate,this is the path by which you can build a strong and long relationship.
But at what cost?None of the person takes interest to assess the cost what a person pay for this toleration.And one more thing if this proverb exists that means injustice,violence or inhuman acts also exist which one has to tolerate and everyone expects the existence of all these unexpected behaviour in a relationship.What does it mean that nobody tries to remove the poison but they give the anti-poison medicine---tolerance in your hand so that you can survive.